Lord’s Day 41 · The Seventh Commandment
Biblical Purity Reformed Confessions 7 min April 10, 2026
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Q108 What is God’s will for us in the seventh commandment?
That God condemns all unchastity, and that we should therefore detest it wholeheartedly and live decent and chaste lives, within or outside of the holy state of marriage.
Q109 Does God, in this commandment, forbid only such scandalous sins as adultery?
We are temples of the Holy Spirit, body and soul, and God wants both to be kept clean and holy. That is why God forbids all unchaste actions, looks, talk, thoughts, or desires, and whatever may incite someone to them.
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0:00 Heidelberg Catechism, Lord’s Day 41. 0:12 What is God's will for us in the seventh commandment? 0:15 That God condemns all unchastity, and that we should therefore detest it, wholeheartedly and live decent and chaste lives within or outside of the holy state of marriage. 0:26 Does God in this commandment forbid only such scandalous sins as adultery? We are temples of the Holy Spirit, body and soul, and God wants both to be kept clean and holy. That is why God forbid 0:40 all unchaste actions, looks, talk, thoughts, or desires, and whatever may incite someone to them. 0:47 A growing obedience to God's law out of thankfulness to Him for His salvation is something the Holy Spirit produces in every true Christian. But that doesn't mean it's easy. Not only 1:00 do we have Satan and our own sinful flesh against us, but we also live in a world that generally despises and disregards God's law. And nowhere is that more obvious than with 1:11 the seventh commandment: "You shall not commit adultery." 1:14 We live in a society that blatantly promotes adultery, divorce, seduction, pornography, sleeping around, incest, homosexuality, transgenderism, and a whole host of other things. 1:27 The temptations not to honor marriage and sexuality as God designed it are everywhere. 1:33 It's not always easy to resist these temptations. 1:36 But that's what this commandment is telling us to do. 1:39 as the catechism makes clear that God condemns all unchastity or sexual immorality and impurity. Why? Because it dishonors his institution of marriage. God 1:52 instituted marriage when he created Eve out of one of Adam's ribs and brought her to him to be his wife. Genesis 2 tells us all about And then it concludes with these words in verses 24 and 25: 2:14 That teaches us several things about marriage. One is that marriage is to be between one man and one man. 2:19 man and one woman. 2:21 It's also meant to be a very special relationship. 2:24 It involves leaving and cleaving. 2:27 It makes the married couple a whole new family unit that's not meant to be broken. 2:33 It also teaches us that marriage is the proper place and the only proper place for God's good gift of sex. 2:39 That's part of what being one flesh here means. 2:42 That's how being one flesh is most intimately expressed and experienced. 2:47 And that's only for a husband and wife, no one else. 2:50 That's how God made it. 2:52 And the point is, marriage is his invention. 2:54 And that means that it and everything included in it is not ours to do with whatever we want. 2:59 is also, as Ephesians 5 points out, it's meant to be a picture and a reflection of the relationship between Christ and His Church. And that means that every violation of marriage, especially 3:11 as Christians, reflects poorly on that bond, on that union between Christ and His people. 3:18 And that means, as the catechism says, says that we should detest it wholeheartedly and live decent and chaste lives within or outside of the holy state of marriage. 3:27 In 1 Corinthians 6:18 we're told to flee from sexual immorality. 3:32 But again, all of this is hard in our society and we might be tempted to think, well as long as we don't commit the obvious, the worst forms of sexual immorality, like physical adultery, that's good enough. 3:46 But it's not. 3:48 The catechism puts it like this: "We are temples of the Holy Spirit, body and soul, and God wants both to be kept clean and holy. 3:56 That is why God forbids all unchaste actions, looks, talk, thoughts, or desires, and whatever may incite someone to them. 4:04 Jesus himself teaches us this in Matthew 5:27-28 in his Sermon on the Mount. 4:10 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed 4:19 adultery with her in his heart. And so what Jesus is making clear here is that the seventh commandment calls for the pursuit and promotion of total purity. 4:29 And that means that we need to flee even lustful thoughts and desires. We need to flee from things like pornography. We need to talk and dress and act 4:39 in ways that promote purity instead of impurity in others. And we need to flee things that would tend to lead us to impurity, like things like drunkenness, for example. If we're married, 4:52 we need to live in faithfulness to our spouse, delighting in them and not neglecting them. 4:57 And if we hope to get married, it means marrying in the Lord, seeking a godly spouse. 5:02 But how can we do all of this in the society wherein we live? 5:06 Well, it starts with trusting in Christ. 5:09 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 makes clear that even those who have violated this commandment can be washed and sanctified and justified in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. 5:19 and by the Spirit of our God. 5:21 And so the way to purity begins with trusting in Christ, and then also recalling our union with Him, and that we are temples of the Holy Spirit. 5:31 And so when we are tempted, we need to remind ourselves, as Paul teaches us in 1 Corinthians 6, "I can't do this because I'm part of the church I'm a member of Christ. 5:42 My body is a member of Christ. 5:44 I'm a temple of the Holy Spirit. 5:45 I'm called to be holy for Him. 5:48 Another thing that helps and that we're called to do is to be radical. 5:53 And Jesus also refers to this in His Sermon on the Mount as well. 5:56 We're to do whatever we need to do to keep God. 5:59 pure, whether that's putting filters on our phone or having someone to keep us accountable or getting rid of our big screens, whatever it takes. 6:09 And lastly, if we fail in whatever way in this commandment, we need not to stay there, but to repent. 6:18 That's the way to forgiveness and restoration. 6:19 also for this sin. It's through Christ and His blood. He will give us the grace we need for forgiveness and also for the strength to live in total purity to Him. 6:39 Thank you. Made automatically from the audio, so a word here or there may be wrong. Tap any line to play from there.
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